GFs meet one of my fashion loves…. my costume/vintage clip-on earrings (I know I have a lot of clip-on earrings). Yes, I know 65+ babes only wear clip-ons and you have pierced ears. Which is exactly my point, no one else is! Be a trendsetter and rock a pair of clip-ons. These little time capsules are a classic look since they’re a blast from the fashion past. Honestly, I get compliments on my clip-ons all time… which why I know clip-ons will be making a comeback. MENTAL NOTE! Ladies, you’ve heard it from HonestFrugalChaos first .
Tired of the same role playing routines? Role playing no longer has to be limited to school girls and playing doctor. Try these new themes when it comes to tantalizing your partner and bringing more excitement to the relationship!
Surprisingly, numerous women love TSAs. Just think of how many dirty thoughts can run through your mind as your wait in that long security check-point line. And hey, many of those TSAs are well, not bad at all. If you own a blue button-up shirt and black dress pants you have a similar outfit for your signifiant other. Pair this with handcuffs, gloves and a bat. Talk dirty to your partner about them smuggling drugs or trying to bring a gun onto a plane and how they will have a price to pay for it. They are sure to give up what you are looking for in no time.
2. The Workplace
Ever been an intern at a company and had a secret yet vivid crush on a person of authority? Well, fulfill that fantasy now. If you have a desk and business casual clothes you can always make this happen. Tell your partner about the scenario, who the person of power was and let them do the rest. What can you make happen with a few office supplies and an overly comfortable office chair?
Go to a bar alone and tell your partner to meet you a little later. Act as though you are single and just looking to meet new people by mixing and mingling at the bar. When your signifiant other comes to hang out with you at the bar act as if you have never seen them before. Do this by making up another name and identity for yourself. Be someone you think would have unbelievable sex and try to stay in character for the rest of the night! Find out what you two truly can do. (This can also be applied to a hotel for an extra element of danger and adrenaline!)
(Of course this will only be role playing if it is not something your are normally into.) Pretend you found your partner cheating and now need to teach them a lesson. Numerous items can be used here, but try whips, handcuffs, blindfolds, small bats, beer bottles, hot wax, chains and more. Know your partner’s limits, but make every moment worth it!
5. For Intellectuals
Do you get both heated and aroused by a good argument? If so, pick a topic, do a little research, grab a bottle of wine and simply have at it! Make a sexual prize for whomever wins the debate. It’s a great opportunity to stimulate both the mind and body.
Is role playing something you enjoy often? Share your stories…don’t worry, you don’t have to share you name, although you can if you wish!
A couple of months back I was introduced to an amazing restaurant based in the heart of Union Square called Max Brenner’s. It boasts itself as a great place for yummy food and a variety of great desserts, most notably chocolate. I went there last week with a good friend of mine, and once again, was not disappointed at all. Even though we went at peak time on a Friday night, we were seated relatively quickly and had some great conversations with our overtly friendly waitress. That was just the beginning and it kept getting better.
I have had my experience with mac n cheese in my entire life. Most of the time it comes from a box and takes a simple ten minutes to make, yet it is still delicious. I decided to go with the Really Cheesy-Really Crunchy Mac N Cheese they have their. It comes with five different cheeses, tomatoes and smoked applewood bacon. When I first laid eyes on it, it was like heaven on a whole other level. The variety of cheeses really explode in your mouth on top of the crunchy bacon and fresh tomatoes. It even comes with a side of marinara sauce, something that I never in my life thought would work for this kind of a dish, but it makes it that much more homier and yummy at the same time. Hands down the best mac n cheese I have ever had in my life.
That is just one part of how decadent this place really is. You can’t finish a good meal like that and not try out the dessert. Just walking in there it feels like you are in Willy Wonka’s world, and it’s one you don’t want to leave. There are chocolate fountains and a variety of every type of candy and chocolate you can possibly imagine. That’s just walking in too! The dessert menu is like the guest list at the Oscar’s, top notch and you know it’s going to be one hell of a treat. From their fondue (YES FONDUE!!!) to unique items like Chocolate Pizza, there is something for everyone in that department (especially this pic which easily satisfied me and my friend).
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The AVN Awards Celebrate Their 30th Anniversary
Just this past weekend, The Adult Video News (AVN) Awards celebrated their 30th anniversary in Las Vegas, NV at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino. In the heart of Las Vegas, porn stars from all over the country gathered to celebrate their controversial industry. This is not a show we would see happening in the heart of New York City, but AVN calls Las Vegas home. This also holds true for numerous sex conventions including the fact that the actual AVN award ceremony only lasts one night, but the event spans the length of the entire weekend including autographed signings and performances by top porn stars.
In Sin City, average girls change their appearance to hopefully make more money. Fake breasts do not only appeal to exotic industries, but they dominate the female workforce in general. Cocktail waitresses at popular strip hotels will make $17 per/hr, plus tips up to $500 a night! Now one can see why a $5,000 boob job is super appealing to many young females. The high school dropout rate also averages 60% since women how they can make cash and fast. Oh, America.
East Coast Beauty
Ironically in America, beauty is not necessarily in the eye of the beholder. On one side of the country we are more likely to find “natural” models. These girls are usually slender and tall, (unless we are referring to the plus size breed) with stunning facial features. New York City is known for it’s elite models who were born to become successful in their given field. In NYC, less in more, but the west coast, on the contrary is quite different.
West Coast Splendor
Think about the west coast for a minute. In regards to Las Vegas and Los Angeles in particular, beauty is the polar opposite and often times, it actually means fake is more appealing than anything else. Here people confide in top plastic surgeons to give them a look many people only wish to achieve. The likes of breasts implants, lip injections, fake tanning and liposuction are all too popular. Failure to invest in these procedures could either mean a short-lived career or even a lack of one all together. Even women who dream of being models or actresses often find themselves caught up in the porn industry due to its large appeal and high payout rate.
The question is, why has fake become popular and real an afterthought?
Could it be because the porn industry is actually more accepting than the modeling industry ever will be? While there are numerous fetishes to be fulfilled in the porn industry, modeling remains close-minded and women need to fit into one of very few boxes.
All-in-all, the west coast is known for attracting young singles, is this why the porn industry truly exploded there?
If you get a chance to see both worlds, or have been active in the modeling or porn world let us know, we would love to hear your opinion.